In college, I was sexually assaulted by the guy who was in charge of my building. When I finally got away from him, I was terrified that it wouldn’t matter because he had a key to my room. (Later, I found out he had done the same with other women in my building.) I never reported it because I knew no one would believe me. Also, because I went over to his place willingly, then changed my mind about being there while I was there. I said "no" a lot and tried to be playful about